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Why Earned Money Has More Value Than Passive Income.
We all know money is fungible. Of course a dollar earned is a dollar spent, whether it comes from a paycheck, a side hustle, or an unexpected windfall. But somehow, not all money feels the same. Earned money has more value than passive income.
There’s something different, something more satisfying, something visceral about the money we earn through visible effort. The pride we take in our work often comes from the direct connection between what we do and the reward we receive for it.
That’s why a direct deposit doesn’t feel the same as cash in hand. Why getting paid through Venmo or Zelle doesn’t carry the same weight as peeling off crisp bills. And why the money we earn from a passion project often means more than a lucky break.
But first, a story.
A Story That Proves the Power of Earned Money Value
My Daughter Taught Me a Lesson About Earned Money Value
When my daughter was about 14, no longer a little girl, not yet a young adult, I was playing music at a small café in Coconut Grove. She stopped by with her friends, listened for a while, then told me they were heading to the movies.
I reached into the tip bucket, pulled out three twenties, and handed them to her. “Treat your friends to tickets and popcorn,” I said.
She looked at the money. Then at me. Then back at the money.
And then she shook her head and handed the bills back.
“I can’t take that, Dad. You earned it.”
I smiled. Of course, I’d earned it. But hadn’t my wife and I also earned every dollar we’d ever given her? The money that paid for her food, her clothes, our home, the car she rode in?
So what was different about these three bills?
She had watched me earn them.
She had seen me play, had watched strangers reach into their pockets and drop money into that bucket. To her, this wasn’t just money. It was earned money. And earned money had value.
And I get it. Even though I know better logically, I still feel the same way.
Why We Value Tangible Effort More
Why a Direct Deposit Doesn’t Feel the Same as Cash in Hand
Over the years, I’ve earned money in different ways. I’ve spoken at conferences, consulted on brand messaging, bought and sold vintage Porsche 911s, written books, invested in real estate, and built businesses. And while I appreciate all of it, there’s something uniquely satisfying about the money that comes from doing something I love, something I can see and feel.
Our real estate investments have done well. But do I feel like I truly earned that money? Not in the same way I do when I get paid to stand on stage and connect with an audience. Not in the same way I feel when someone buys one of my books. Not in the same way I feel when someone drops a tip in a bucket while I play harmonica at a little club in Miami.
Why Passive Income Feels Different from Active Effort
Tangible effort makes the reward real.
It’s why a carpenter might admire the table they built more than the stock dividends in their portfolio.
It’s why an artist may treasure the sale of a painting more than an unexpected inheritance.
It’s why my daughter instinctively knew the difference between taking her allowance and taking the money from my tip bucket.
How Businesses Can Make Their Value More Visible
This isn’t just about money, it’s about value. And understanding this dynamic is critical in branding and messaging.
Customers don’t just want to pay for a service. They want to see its value. They want to understand the effort behind it. That’s why transparent pricing, behind-the-scenes content, and storytelling are so powerful.
How to Show Your Customers the Effort Behind Your Work
Think about your own business:
- Are you showing your customers the effort behind your work?
- Are you making your value tangible?
- Do they see why you charge what you do?
The more they witness the work behind what you do, the more they’ll respect and appreciate your value.
Applying This to Your Business and Brand
As a keynote speaker, I don’t just talk about branding, messaging, and business strategy. I show organizations how to communicate their value in a way that resonates—so their clients and customers see, feel, and believe in what they do.
I help businesses make their invisible efforts visible.
And valuable.
I keynote at conferences around the world, and I still have a few dates open in 2025. If you want your audience to see, feel, and appreciate the value of your brand, let’s talk.
Drop me a message at www.bruceturkel.com, and let’s make your value visible too.
Bruce, I love this point you’ve made so well in this post. Your daughter’s example really brought it home. And you are so right. I DO value revenue I EARN (especially when it’s at the end of a long and intense project) more than what I RECEIVE from different levels of labor and value. We should pull the curtain back a bit for our clients and let them see the effort and magic we provide them. Thanks for the reminder